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Is He For Real? - You know you have a romance scammer if....
They encourage you in any way to beg, borrow or steal for them - this includes questioning loan approvals, checking if transfers have been made and asking how much your friend can loan you.
They are risking your health with the huge amount of stress they are selfishly causing.
They are treating you like a fool – thinking you are stupid enough to not notice their inconsistencies.
They are taking money out of your relationship to fund their online antics with you.
They are exhausting you with uncertainty – the agony of not knowing can lead to sleepless nights, lack of appetite and illness
They are placing you at risk of a criminal record by requesting that you do actions for them.
They are taking money away from your children, family and friends
Does that nagging doubt continue to arise - is that inner voice telling you something is not quite right but you want to go against your better judgement anyway?
Are you ready to know the real truth?
Are you worried what your online lover might be doing to your health and finances?
Are you frustrated at having no solid proof that they exist?
Are you acting in ways you thought you would not otherwise have acted?
Are you not knowing what to actually do when your instinct alarm sounds?
By following self-help guidelines you will know for sure if your partner is for real.
Is your online lover showing any of these suspicious signs?
Strange behaviour on MSN - Is your online lover always dropping out of IM and logging in or changing status or leaving strange status messages?
Answering their phone - Are they keeping their phone on voice mail or ringing you during the early hours of the morning or changing their tone after they pick up?
Overly defensive or vague - When you question their behaviour, do they give answers that don't add up or question your trust for even questioning them or do they just drop out?
Do they send emails that seem like they may have been copied from a poetry site? Google phrases.
Is the majority of your communication received and sent by text - ie. email, messenger?
When you ask for more photos, do they delay your request or send you photos of a slightly different person?
Are the photos different from the original dating site profile photo?
Did they send you their private email address of yahoo and hotmail in their first contact with you and ask you to go to IM to chat rather than chat through the dating site?
Did he tell you that he received a message from the dating site that they will no longer be online after (date) and tells you that he doesn't know the truth to that but to be on the safe side, he gives you his email address so you can respond to him through his email address?
Did he introduce himself with his full name, christian and surname?
Are they traveling overseas and headed towards Africa or Malaysia?
Are they widowers with children or divorced with child because their ex cheated on them?
Are they self-employed?
Are they requesting money because they have lost their wallet, their hotel burned down, they had an unfortunate accident and ended up in hospital?
Are they asking you to help them with money to pay their hotel bills, medical costs?
Are they wealthy and yet request money from you to fund their business venture or day to day living costs?
Have they requested Western Union transfer?
Do they use a different dialect than the country they originate from?
Do they avoid eye contact? - No web cam - Scammers are known to create fake video for cams, ask him to make a movement, blow a kiss, play Simon Says. (Read how) Programs that create fake cam
If you are experiencing some of the signs above, you are communicating with a deceptive online profile.
Catch them out quickly and survive the emotional turmoil and abuse before you become financially ruined from their ultimate betrayal and find evidence of their fraudulent representation by using self-help guides from The Australian Guide to Romance Scams - Romance Scam Art Australia - The Art of Romance Scams.
Work through the signs above of online deception using our self-help guide on this site to uncover lies
Uncover the tricks online profiles use to hide their impending betrayal and find evidence that they are not who they say they are
Part of what makes handling the deceptive lover so difficult is that we just can't find any evidence that he is real and want to believe that he is. Find out how online romance scam predators think and learn why you need to build a solid case to break through the confusion you are having.....and make a decision based on facts, not lies.
DO NOT LET THEM GET AWAY WITH IT!
They only want your money...not you!