Most people do not know who is behind the screen after being scammed. Behind most Nigerian scams is a young black Nigerian man/woman, possible university student or Lagos nobody using your funds for their high living, drugs, alcohol and designer everything. It is likely that your 6 foot 2 inches ex-boyfriend may only be 5 foot 3 inches.
Scammers are able to look at themselves in romance scam sites, read their own stories and contact the the women they have scammed again because they know she has no knowledge of who they really are and they can re-contact the ones they like, they could contact them through another identity to fulfil their desires. They would know who you are but it is never so easy for them to continue contact and the feelings they had, if any, will never be experienced in the same way again for them. They continue using their scripts even after the victim is aware that she has been scammed hoping to continue their false relationship to gain further funds. The victim needs to terminate the relationship permanently or she will be abused further.
They are also known to "hate all that has been kept".and have referred to their behaviour as "kissing the discontent".
A scammer's life is not full of enjoyable talk to women, they come across all walks of life and have to listen to some not so nice personalities, a reflection of themselves and they have to agree with everything that is said. Their memories would be full of intimate stories, good and bad, they would listen to people who treat others unfairly like themselves. Imagine having to pretend to be interested in someone who was just not likeable at all, day after day, week after week, month after month. Back